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Wood child. A child who experiences life as an attack, whose childhood is a lot to do with hurt may show up as a Fire C.F. There are also differences in Heart/ Small Intestine Fire and Heart Protector/Three Heater Fire C.F.s Rapport In C.F.E.A. rapport is the skill of making contact with the patients C.F. Element. Seeing which one of the elements they respond to or feel most at home in. In the Traditional Diagnosis do they react to the sympathy of Earth, the respect of Metal? Even though it may not be your own home element does the patient relax when you portray Water, feel safe when you give them the structure of Wood? Below are a few of the things that you look for when searching for the C.F. Element. Fire A Fire C.F. will want to have relationship, will want to be equal with you. They may be either lack of or excess joy. Their colour can range between ashen gray to quite red. The colour will manifest under the skin at the level of the blood. Even the most ashen gray or lack of joy Fire C.F. will rise like a fire into laughter for some time. Their voice will have a sense of laughter even when discussing quite grave topics. You can gain rapport with this element either by going up to the laughter and have a good time or going down into the lack of joy or sadness. The Fire C.F. will feel this to be normal as this is where they live most of their lives. Sometimes the person may show a shy nature or you may feel they are keeping you at bay with their laughter. Earth An Earth C.F. carries a deep sense of emptiness. The emotion of earth is sympathy and they may covey a sense of neediness. They will either be the type of person who really wants you to understand all they have been through or to goes into "I don't need anyone". Their voice will have a sing to it; the colour on their face will range from a gray yellow to a bright banana colour. This colour will manifest in the flesh. They will have an odour that is sweet, of blossoms that are slightly off. Metal. The Metal person wants respect. The emotion of Metal is grief. This is a sense of loss, a feel for what could have been. This is different to the sadness of Fire. The colour of metal is white; this will show on the skin. It may look like they have a white powder on. The odour is rotten, like the smell of a butchers shop or of the Large Intestine. They want to know you are not going to feel better than them. It will feel normal for you to be at a physically lower position to them in the room. The space will have the quiet feel of respect, like a church. Any laughter will be at your expense. Water. Water is the Element of Fear. These people will either be frozen like ice or raging like an over full stream. These people are driven, maybe manic or quiet like a still pond. The colour will show on top on the skin as a ruddy red/ blue. Their odour is Putrid, the smell of the Kidneys and Bladder. A Water person lives on the edge of fear where they have a love / hate relationship with the emotion. A Water C.F. wants reassurance. Their voice will groan, have a continuous maybe monotonous feel to it. Wood. Wood is the Element of determination, assertion, of anger. Their main emotion will range between a sense of frustration to hopelessness. They want to know that you are in control so they can relax. They may feel pushy and want you to push back. Their voice will have shout or a sense of assertion to it. The colour green will float above the skin nearly like a glow. Their odour is Rancid. Similar to that of oil that has gone off; as though the body is not digesting fats. Through observing the Colour, Sound, Odour, Emotion and gaining rapport with the person the C.F. |